Finding a Relationship ~ How does it actually work?


If you are like many on Earth, you are hoping for that perfect one. The One who  is your Beloved, your Twin, your One true Love. Or maybe you are in a relationship and would like to improve it.

How does it all come about?

What about practical issues?


Taking the steps to attract your Beloved, what are they?

How about the dating sites?

To start off here, being alone for some is not a lot of fun. Great satisfaction and DEEP meaning may be experienced through the perfect union and loving relationship. At the same time, those of you who have been through marriages (legal union) know all too well, you can wake up one day and realize the nightmare experience you are living with beside you.

Why is that?

What are relationships about?

Ok, first things first.

How do you feel about yourself? That is right, TRULY deep down how do you feel about yourself?

How you feel about yourself is the foundation for whatever relationship you START.  Or are in.

If you feel not so great, DO not expect a relationship to fix that. Let’s be honest also. If you feel mediocre about yourself you will attract a mediocre relationship at best. ONE that will expose the flaws you feel within yourself. Those flaws, are the ego, attempting to receive love.

When you have loved all those seemingly non lovable parts of yourself, you have no flaws. Only AUTHENTICITY. The loved parts that you embraced within yourself, become the CORNERSTONE for an Authentic relationship.

Ready to See the writing on the wall? Look in the mirror.

This IS NOT about perfection or APPEARANCES. This is about how are you DEEP within yourself. Insecure? Love yourself. Not sure about yourself, LOVE THAT. Attempting to hide those addictions, habits? Love those!

Loving yourself lays the foundation for loving authentically. Do not kid yourself, Face the truth.

Quit the cover up game, you to you. Love yourself then you are capable of true love.

Those dating sites are a reflection of life. How many are functioning at the appearance level. Authentic level. There is no need for concern, if you are Authentic you will ATTRACT Authenticity to you, If you love yourself you will draw true love to you.

What if it feels like you have waited forever? Continue on, loving yourself.

The process of waiting might be developing your “NO” reflex. The Ability to not be swayed by others. And by what they say.

TRUST your feelings. Deep down you know if someone is attempting to influence you to do something you really do not want to do. Many have been there before, Done that, so to speak.

Your inner guidance is your feeling. When you KNOW something you KNOW.

What about those people who said they KNOW, yet are experiencing nightmare relationships. That is what they needed. Both parties in the relationship are PLAYING out what is deep within themselves. They were not ready for that perfect love relationship.

What if you are wondering? YOU will KNOW.

What if every man or woman seems not suitable but is after you? You must be practising your No reflex. Standing up for yourself, what you feel of you.

Desperation is from the feeling of unworthiness. It covers up what is waiting to be loved within yourself.

LOVE yourself if you desire a deep intimate relationship. Take care of your body as part of loving yourself.

There are great results on dating sites and not great results, it is all a reflection of what is. What is needed.

What about the Twin Flame thing? Well, the Twin Flame thing is a natural UNION that already exists. When you are READY through LOVING yourself you will draw that relationship to YOU. As it exists at the LEVEL of your Higher Self, already.

You are a frequency which you are constantly TRANSMITTING.

Transmitting a frequency that is NOT the embodiment of your Higher Self, is transmitting and signalling your CURRENT frequency match.

Which is always shifting.

The MORE you embody the Light of your Higher Self, the greater the attraction for your TRUE Twin FLAME.

This is not an ego relationship.

This is a true love relationship.

When you truly Love yourself YOU also feel the love of your Divine Twin Flame, present within your heart.

It is an eternal presence, always living within your Heart.

Which by the way, is just another you. SAME Soul.

Do not get caught up on the ego aspect of spirituality. It is the heart that matters and the true Union. Or whatever it is you are truly ready for, based on your vibration. You cannot draw something to you that you are not vibrating to.

It still comes down to the SAME THING.

What is!

What you are vibrating to and with.

What you are ready for or NOT ready for.

More soon on relationships. For now, LOVE YOURSELF. I love You and holding you in your transformation. Through Love.


Eternal Love and Bliss!


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Posted on July 21, 2016, in 5th Dimensional Consciousness, Alchemical Transfiguration, Alchemy, Awakening, Conscious Creation, I Am Presence, Living in Your Heart, Love, Present Moment Awareness, Pure Being, relationships and tagged , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 10 Comments.

  1. Some go to spam, I see this one now!

  2. Paul H Sawicki

    Hi there! I’m Paul Sawicki, are you receiving my messages, cause I feel that you have not sent me a proper reply back to me!

  3. Yes we cannot give what we do not have. True love is unconditional.

    Never “wait” as there are stages of evolution that “include” learning how to love Your self more and more. Which automatically include loving others more.

    True love as in sharing it unconditionally, authentically is deep Union.

    Any other form of love is learning.
    Growth. Opening to more love.


  4. That was just amazing! To put it into words like that… 💗🌟💗🌟💗🌟❣

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  5. i love you and what you teach but i disagree with you here. If we had to wait until we loved yourself to be loved by another, most people would never find true love. I do think our issues and the damage done by past relationships of all sorts does hinder our love life…and it’s best if we have those things sorted out first, but that just isn’t reality…I personally have not ever had a real relationship with a man except for my husband of 18 years and I was not in love with was not a good relationship…i have been single since my divorce 9 years ago and don’t see that changing any time soon as much as I want a love of my own. Some of us were meant to walk alone for what ever reason. That doesn’t stop the pain of wanting to be loved and to love someone…but you learn to accept things…I believe there really is no rhyme or reason when it comes to falling in love…we don’t ask for it, it just happens and a lot of the time it is unrequited…all we can do is try to heal and keep moving forward..If you are one of the lucky ones that does find a soulmate, hold them tight, treat them like god and never take them for granted. ❤

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